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Safety and Consent in BDSM

Before diving into specifics, it's crucial to emphasize that BDSM practices should always be based on mutual respect, consent, and safety. Here are some general guidelines:

1. Restraint: The bottom (the person being played with) is secured in the Bastienne Cross. Ensure their comfort and ability to safely be in this position.
2. Impact Play: The top (the person doing the playing) starts with gentle impacts to gauge the bottom's comfort and reaction. Gradually increase intensity based on the bottom's cues and consent.
3. Monitoring: Continuously check on the bottom's comfort, adjusting your actions based on their feedback.

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5. Cultural and Social Perspectives